Beyond OnlyFans: Alice Lovegood’s Journey into Kink Education

When Alice Lovegood lights up our sassy lives with her openness, humour, and refusal to sugar-coat the realities of sex, kink, and education. Known as a content creator, event host and educator on her platform Better Sx Blog, Alice has built a reputation not just for being explicit but for being real and sharing the kind of stories that make people laugh, squirm, and, most importantly, reflect. “I’ve always been that kid that didn’t really understand following the crowd,” Alice admits, a trait that now inspires thousands to step away from shame and into curiosity.

I’ve always been that kid that didn’t really understand following the crowd

Our conversation begins with Alice sharing her early foray into OnlyFans - a leap she made while pregnant during lockdown. What started as a “sexual outlet” quickly became a platform for discovery, not only of her own desires to provide kink and sex ed but of the framework of polyamory. She describes those early conversations with her husband Matt as both terrifying and liberating: “I thought we’d have to break up because I wanted to be non-monogamous. But he said, ‘Why don’t we just try?’” That willingness to test boundaries led to new dynamics, multiple partners, and a radical honesty that underpins her work today.

From adult content creation, Alice expanded into education, finding her voice as a kink guide. Yet she’s quick to admit the doubts that shadowed her, “I’ve always had this thing in my head where it’s like, you don’t know enough. There are people who know more.” What ultimately gave her confidence was recognising that her role wasn’t to prescribe, but to support. Drawing on her time studying midwifery, Alice work shares a deep crossover between sexual education and reproductive care: “In midwifery, you say, ‘Here are your options. Here’s what’s happening in your body. Now you have the information to feel empowered and supported.’” That same principle guides her teaching today, whether it’s kink tutorials, workshops, or one-to-one sessions. “It’s not our job to tell you how to live your life. It’s our job to give you the information so you feel empowered to make decisions that are right for you.”

Her approach - deliciously explicit yet approachable - catapulted her into viral fame online, attracting both fans seeking pleasure tutorials and followers hungry for education. That duality hasn’t always been easy. Alice reflects on the challenge of parasocial relationships, where strangers project expectations of who she should be. “People imagine this horny, happy-go-lucky Alice. And I’m not that all the time. I’m neurodivergent, awkward, and I need space.” Balancing authenticity with privacy has been one of her hardest lessons.

Humans are supposed to learn through play. Kink and sex are adult play. I want people to find joy in that again.

But Alice’s motivations remain clear: to dismantle shame and invite play. She believes kink gives us tools to process emotions and reclaim curiosity: “Humans are supposed to learn through play. Kink and sex are adult play. I want people to find joy in that again.” This philosophy drives her events series, Bound to Meet, where she creates IRL spaces for people to connect without fear. Having met both of her new partners at the events (a GREAT sign for attendees!), Alice shares how“If you come to Bound to Meet, people are going to be talking about foot jobs and rimming." She giggles before saying 'If you’re not into that, maybe don’t come. But if you are - or you’re curious - you’ll feel at home.”

Alice Lovegood is shaping society with each video, post, and event. She’s proof that education can be sexy, sex can be educational, and community thrives when honesty leads. Whether you’re exploring your own desires, learning how to have tough conversations with partners, or simply seeking connection, Alice offers workshops, resources, and gatherings that break down barriers. As she puts it, “You are the expert in yourself. My job is to give you the tools to make decisions that are right for you.”

For those ready to step into curiosity, Alice’s world is open - on screen, online, and, perhaps most powerfully, across the room at a Bound to Meet event. So what you waiting for honeys - its time to level up that sass!

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Since recording this episode, Alice Lovegood has had her ig account @bettersx.blog wrongfully suspended. You can help by appealing directly via IG.  Find out here.

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Interview by Bethany Burgoyne

@bxsassy2