Roxanne Murray - aka the Multiple Sclerosis Fashionista - has spent nearly two decades transforming personal pain into powerful advocacy. After eight years of misdiagnosis rooted in medical racism, Roxy finally received her MS diagnosis at 26. Now she's on a mission to reclaim pleasure, joy, and visibility for disabled communities. "I want my pleasure back," she declares. Through her work, she's challenging systems, breaking taboos, and insisting that disabled people deserve it all - pleasure, access, and representation. From quickfire questions about porn and nudity to deep conversations about racism in healthcare, Roxanne shares her journey from misdiagnosis to becoming a powerhouse voice for change. Discover why disabled people are "hot as f***," how orgasms are part of wellness, and why the remote control proves accessibility benefits everyone. Expect mesh, latex dreams, hot vampire vibes and radical pleasure advocacy. Keep up to date with Roxy's work by following her on IG @multiplesclerosisfashionista Hear Roxy's episode on Myelin & Melanin And catch Roxy's monthly column 'Roxy's Radar' on New Pathways Interview and portraits by Bethany Burgoyne @bxsassy2

This week, we're joined by Inu, a shibari enthusiast and inclusive kink advocate who's shattering myths about asexuality, desire, attraction, and pleasure. Tune in to hear Inu discuss why being Ace doesn't mean being a robot, how asexuality exists on a spectrum within kink spaces, and why "friends with benefits" means exactly what you think it does. From navigating dating apps to finding liberation in rope bondage, Inu shares his journey of unapologetic self-discovery, the power of communication, and why being a "power bottom" is all about earning respect. Expect myth-busting, philosophy, and some seriously sassy quick-fire rounds about what it really means to be asexual in alternative lifestyle communities. Follow Inu on their IG account @xshibarinux and find him on fetlife at xPuppy_Princex for more sassyness. Interview by Bethany Burgoyne @bxsassy2

Bethany sits down with kink educator and content creator Alice Lovegood (Better Sx Blog) for a candid, funny, and deeply honest conversation about polyamory, pleasure, kink, going viral online, and creating real-life spaces for people to connect. Alice shares her journey from OnlyFans to education, the challenges of visibility, and how she’s reshaping conversations around sex—one video, one workshop, and one event at a time. Follow Alice on her new IG account @alicelovegoodwho and find her website bettersx.blog for more info. Get to know @boundtomeet on IG for info on upcoming events. Interview by Bethany Burgoyne @bxsassy2

This month on The Sassy Show, BxSassy is joined by two trailblazing burlesque superstars who are redefining what cabaret can look like: Miss Terriboxx and Mama Mamba. From MMA cages to cabaret stages, Miss Terri Boxx has lipsynced her way into the drag and burlesque scene as a bearded queen who defies mainstream ideals and captivates audiences with fantastical, magnetic artistry. Mama Mamba brings her own fire in the most horny and shocking ways from staple guns to feathers and glitter, no performance is ever quite the same. Together, they share how burlesque has shaped their confidence, why representation matters in an industry still dominated by cis, white, skinny performers, and how they are using their performances to inspire others to embrace their own sassy, liberated selves. Expect a conversation full of laughter, honesty, and a peek behind the glitter — from stage nerves and community love, to the radical power of queerness, creativity, and self-expression. 👉 Follow Miss Terri Boxx: @miss.terriboxx 👉 Follow Mama Mamba: @mama.mamba

Photographer Tigz Rice joins the Sassy Show to talk all things body empowerment, sexy poses, and how going viral reshaped her mission to make all bodies visible. From burlesque beginnings to building a global community, Tigz is showing us what radical self-acceptance really looks like—one shot at a time. Get to know Tigz online @TigzRice IG: https://www.instagram.com/tigzrice Website: https://www.tigzrice.com/ Interview by Bethany Burgoyne Produced: The Sassy Show Studio: OSR Studio

The Sassy Show is back, honey! Season 10 kicks off with a bang as BxSassy welcomes Lola and January to the sofa. Known for their bold presence in the ethical non-monogamy (ENM) and kink scenes, this episode dives deep into what it means to be nesting partners, to love consciously, and to build community with intention. From confronting mainstream relationship myths to the beauty of sober kink spaces, this chat is equal parts cheeky and wise. We get the lowdown on Lola’s event Lucid—a sober, inclusive play party—and an exclusive on their biggest event yet, happening 29th November. Tune in for raw truths, playful confessions, and a whole lot of sassy inspiration. Save the Date: Lucid’s next big event – 29 November Follow @miss_masochist_ and @lucid_sober_events for updates

Welcome to a world where independent makers shine, where kink is celebrated with confidence, and where shopping becomes an experience of self-expression. This week on The Sassy Show, we talked with Alexandra Houston about her journey creating Charmskool - a vibrant, female-led marketplace championing independent businesses. With the new launch of Charmskool Showroom, we get an inside look into it's constantly growing and evolving selection of the very best handpicked international brands showcasing everything from fetishwear to fashion, to erotic art, quirky gifts, homewares and toys. Whether you're interested in fashion, supporting independent businesses, or finding your own path to bold self-expression, this conversation offers inspiration and practical insights from someone who's created a space where creativity thrives. Podcast Sponsored by JOYclub.com - we'd love you to join us over on JOYclub where we have our own special group for sassy conversations, uncensored and open-minded. Use our code for a free premium membership - 2BXS4

From rope art to app design, Anna Kii is transforming sexual taboos through creativity. Step into the creative studio of Anna Kii on this episode of The Sassy Show. As founder of Figure of A, shibari educator, and co-creator of the innovative Phantasies App, Anna is on a mission to elevate kink from underground subculture to mainstream appreciation. Bethany and Anna discuss the beautiful intersection of rope art and fashion, building a supportive business community, and using technology to create safe spaces for fantasy exploration. From her graphic design roots to becoming a confident performer and entrepreneur, Anna's journey shows how embracing our desires can lead to both personal fulfillment and professional success.

This week on The Sassy Show, Bethany welcomes the incredible Reed Amber – a trailblazing force in sex education, adult content creation, and media production as the brilliant co-creator of Come Curious. Reed shares her fascinating journey from TV production student to multifaceted media professional, revealing how her genuine curiosity about sex led her through every role in the adult industry from runner to performer to director. With characteristic honesty, she opens up about creating spaces like her Tickle Enthusiasm event where people can embrace their authentic desires, how turning 30 transformed her relationship with confidence, and why sobriety has supercharged her creativity. Reed's mission to destigmatize conversations about bodies, pleasure, and taboo desires shines through as she discusses the importance of finding your community and embracing what makes you unique. Tune in for a candid, educational, and utterly sassy conversation that will leave you feeling inspired to explore your own authentic self.. Big love to our sponsors JOYclub.com who offer a safe and friendly space for those sassy connections to flourish.

Award-winning journalist Anna Lekas Miller is transforming how we understand global migration and conflict through an unexpected lens: love stories. In her latest appearance on The Sassy Show, she offers a compelling glimpse into her work as both a storyteller and someone who has lived the complexities of cross-border relationships. Known as the journalist who 'spices up migration stories with tales of love and romance,' Anna shares intimate insights into her journey from covering war zones to writing her debut book 'Love Across Borders.' She reads the captivating opening chapter, revealing her own cross-border love story and accidental marriage proposal, while discussing how meeting her Syrian husband Salam transformed both her personal life and reporting perspective. With warmth and humor, Anna explores the challenges of international relationships, visa restrictions, and how finding love helped her discover a new way to tell stories of resilience, hope, and human connection in conflict zones.

This episode, we’re diving into the world of shibari with Frayed Knots—a rigger, performer, and all-round sass pot with a wealth of experience in the kink community. But this isn’t just about rope. It’s about queerness, masculinity, risk, and the responsibility we all have in creating safer, more inclusive spaces. Frayed Knots speaks candidly about what it’s like to navigate the kink scene as a cis man, how queer spaces have shaped him, and why being accountable for your actions is far more important than fearing ‘cancel culture.’ Reminding us that "mistakes happen—but it’s how you handle them that matters." 💬 Topics covered: 🔥 Navigating the kink scene as a cis man 🌀 The sincerity of risk-aware play 🌈 The importance of queer community 🖤 How his approach to shibari has changed over time 📺 His unfiltered thoughts on media and self-expression This interview is full of laughter, wisdom, and real talk about kink, queerness, and personal growth. Watch now and let us know your thoughts in the comments!

Join us for an intimate conversation with embodiment facilitator Giap Tongsayor as she guides host Bethany through sacred ritual practices. Watch as Giap demonstrates the power of intentional space-holding, from the lighting of incense to reading cards, creating a sacred space for deep healing work. This episode offers unique insights into conscious practice, cultural healing traditions, and the importance of creating safe spaces for exploration and growth. Having moved from Thailand to the UK as a teenager, Giap is currently in the process of writing a book exploring how cultural experiences such as sex tourism and being a Pro Domme shaped her approach to sex, the body and her healing work. We hear the fundamental reasons behind Giap’s mission to create sacred spaces, and how ritual can be a pathway to releasing shame and trauma. Experience firsthand how Giap's approach combines ritual and kink with modern healing modalities to create transformative experiences. Get to know Giap Tongsayor and let her knowledge wash you with a mind opening perspective of psychology, sensuality and a touch of BDSM.

This week we're joined by Logan Star, a curator of pleasurable experiences and founder of queer kinky rave Quench. Logan is known on the scene for his work in making kinky spaces accessible to the BIPOC community and opening dialogue for vulnerable conversations. We hear Logan tell Sassy about the fundamentals of safeguard monitoring on the scene and how his own upbringing has shaped his vocal advocation for the safety of people entering kink spaces. Tune in, get to know and evolve in your own ways to, as Logan would say, "light up".

Join us for a raw and revelatory episode of The Sassy Show featuring Ishmael Kirby, the multifaceted artist behind the politically charged drag persona CYRO. In this intimate conversation, Ishmael opens up about his journey through political theatre, punk music, and drag artistry, discussing the complexities of authenticity in the entertainment industry and the power of choosing oneself. From performing at Glastonbury to co-hosting Europe's largest drag king competition Man Up!, Ishmael shares profound insights about artistic integrity, community support, and the transformative power of drag. This episode delves deep into the intersection of art, identity, and activism, offering a compelling look at the reality behind the stage lights. Tune in or watch along on YouTube. Sponsored by JOYclub.com - our home for all things EXTRA Sassy!

Join The Sassy Show as we dive deep into the groundbreaking Fetish and Kink Summit, run by Seed Talks, bringing listeners exclusive interviews with leading experts and advocates who are dismantling misconceptions about human sexuality. This extraordinary collection of conversations features powerful voices from diverse backgrounds—including disability rights advocates, psychotherapists, and community organizers—exploring the nuanced realities of desire, consent, and personal empowerment. Through raw, honest storytelling, these speakers challenge societal norms, amplify marginalized perspectives, and create a radical space for understanding the multifaceted nature of sexual expression, identity, and connection. Featured Speakers from the Fetish and Kink Summit: Katie Evans (GSRD Therapist) Website: www.kecounselling.co.uk Instagram: @kecounselling Munjeeta Sohal (Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist) Website: munjeeta.com Instagram: @kink.and.cuddles Elle Adana (Clinical Psychologist & Kink Specialist) Instagram: @the.constellationship Libby Oliver (Disabled Rights Advocate & Founder of House of Arcane) Instagram: @arcanely2 Roxy Murray (Disability Rights Advocate & Sex-Positive Activist) Instagram: @multiplesclerosisfashionista Phopy (Intersectional Advocate) Videos filmed by Angelina Cage Edited and presented by Bethany Burgoyne This podcast is sponsored by our friends joyclub.com - the online kink-positive community bringing like minded folks together. Sign up for a free premium membership today by hitting the link below: https://joy.club/bx-signup and using the code 2BXS4