For all those solo sasspots out there - have you ever felt limited in exploring your desires due to solitude? Here's your sassy dose of advice on how to embrace solo time and where to go to find communities that make YOU feel good. I pin point some of the challenges that come with being a single kinkster and encourage you all to go at your own pace and practise in your own time. Tune in live on JOYclub.com - find me @bxsassycoach

Sharing our bodies with others can feel like a highly vulnerable ask. TW: SA In today's sassy chat, I dig deep into how new scenarios and changes to our body can make us feel underconfident and shy. I share stories about a threesome and how some wholesome nipple nibbling taught me the strength of self advocacy. And I end by giving you a dose of encouragement and practical ways to start becoming the loudest, proudest person to share our bodies and our desires with others. Come find me on JOYclub for more of this (but uncensored) @bxsassycoach And follow along on IG @sassy256 BxSassy (Bethany) is the founder of The Sassy Show, a multimedia platform advocating for more open conversations about sex and bodily experiences. Tune into The Sassy Show podcast here on YouTube or visit the blog thesassyshow.com

Are you struggling with female facial hair, chin hairs, or feeling shame about your fluffy face? In this episode of Sassy Chat, Bx talks openly about the emotional impact of facial hair on women, gender expression, and how to feel confident with facial hair. Whether you're dealing with PCOS facial hair, a mini moustache, or just sick of society's beauty standards—this video is for you. We talk about: How female facial hair affects confidence How to stop feeling ashamed of your chin hairs Gender identity and facial hair Facial hair removal methods (and why you don’t have to) Embracing your natural face 🎧 Tune into more real talk on The Sassy Show Podcast 🌐 Visit us at thesassyshow.com 📱 Follow Bx on Instagram: @bxsassy2 Subscribe and share your story in the comments, honeys! Fluffy face or not, we want to hear from you. #FacialHair #FemaleFacialHair #ChinHairs #FluffyFace #BodyHairConfidence #PCOSAwareness #GenderExpression #HairAndShame

Sassy Chats with BxSassy and today they're talking all about the golden rules for self exploration - expect a deep dive into how to relinquish shame from our minds, encouragement to be compassionate, and a healthy dose of sharing ways YOU can step into your sassy side, solo. Original livestream over on JOYclub.com - come find me @bxsassycoach and stay tuned for more chats.

What happens when you're labeled "attention-seeking" for simply wanting to share your truth with the world? This is the story of craving connection versus being needy, the fear of losing people's interest, and learning to navigate the complex relationship between visibility and vulnerability. It's about building community, asking for attention with grace, and understanding the difference between self-centered seeking and generous sharing. In this episode, we dive deep into: - Growing from 5 to 400 subscribers and what that shift really means - The church roots and family influence behind wanting to gather crowds - When attention becomes about connection versus insecurity - The scary leap from creating in private to sharing publicly - Fear of being replaced by someone more worthy of applause - How offering attention to others creates a beautiful mirror effect This episode is for you if: ✓ You've been called "attention-seeking" for wanting to share your work ✓ You struggle with the fear of losing people's interest or being forgotten ✓ You want to build an audience but worry about seeming needy ✓ You're ready to ask for attention with confidence and grace ✓ You understand that visibility is essential for creativity to spread its wings TRIGGER WARNING: This episode discusses insecurity, fear of rejection, and the emotional complexity of seeking visibility while maintaining authenticity. Please take care of yourself while listening. 📖 WANT THE FULL EXPERIENCE? This episode is based on my newsletter where I share the complete story with deeper reflections on community, creativity, and the art of asking for what you need. Plus insights from incredible sassy friends who've mastered this balance. 👉 Read the full piece: https://bxsassy.substack.com/p/being-attention-seeking?r=6hy8w 👉 Subscribe for weekly raw truth: bxsassy.substack.com 🎧 LOVING SASSY CHATS? Subscribe for daily episodes Share with someone who needs to hear this Leave a comment - I read every single one Follow me on @bxsassy2 and @_thesassyshow 💬 REFLECTION QUESTIONS: When do you fear attention - what holds you back in this moment? How can you ask for more attention with confidence, grace and self-worth? What's your warmest memory of someone giving you attention? How can you be more attentive to the life you lead? Drop your thoughts below - this community is built on honest conversation . 🔥 TOMORROW'S EPISODE: "CRUSH CONFESSIONS" We're diving into the messy world of unrequited feelings, vulnerable admissions, and what happens when you finally tell someone how you feel. You won't want to miss it.

What happens when you realize you've had a crush on every single person you've ever worked with? This is the story of celebrating the humans who make us shine, understanding how our sexuality shapes our worldview, and building a platform that liberates creativity and sensuality. It's about recognizing the beauty in being attracted to brilliance and using that energy to uplift others. In this episode, we dive deep into: The Sassy Show turning 6 and reflecting on all the beautiful connections made How every featured guest sparked a crush - virtual, live, or deep love The realization that sexuality shapes how we see and showcase the world Why celebrating women, passion, and sensuality makes us feel whole The mission to tear down walls of sexual repression and shame Using self-portraits and vulnerability to inspire others to shine This episode is for you if: ✓ You've ever had a crush on someone's creative brilliance or magnetic energy ✓ You want to understand how attraction can fuel your creative work ✓ You're ready to celebrate sexuality without shame or taboo ✓ You believe in uplifting others through authentic self-expression ✓ You're building something meaningful and want to reflect on the journey TRIGGER WARNING: This episode discusses sexuality, body positivity, nudity in art, and the emotional complexity of attraction to creative brilliance. Please take care of yourself while listening. 📖 WANT THE FULL EXPERIENCE? This episode is based on my newsletter where I share the complete story with intimate self-portraits and deeper reflections on building a platform that celebrates human sexuality and creativity. 👉 Read the full piece: https://bxsassy.substack.com/p/when-youve-got-a-crush?r=6hy8w 👉 Subscribe for weekly raw truth: bxsassy.substack.com 🎧 LOVING SASSY CHATS? Subscribe for daily episodes Share with someone who needs to hear this Leave a comment - I read every single one Follow me on @bxsassy2 and @_thesassyshow 💬 REFLECTION QUESTIONS: Who have you had creative crushes on and why? How does your sexuality shape the way you see the world? What would it look like to celebrate others' brilliance more openly? How can you use attraction as fuel for your own creative expression? Drop your thoughts below - this community is built on honest conversation. 🔥 TOMORROW'S EPISODE: "REJECTION REALITY" We're diving into the hard truths about unrequited feelings, bouncing back from romantic disappointment, and what rejection actually teaches us. You won't want to miss it.

What happens when you finally find the courage to confess your feelings and get hit with stone cold rejection? This is the story of vulnerable confessions, the cloak of insecurity that crushes bring, and the painful realization of how we morph ourselves for love. It's about finding the lessons in rejection and learning to protect your sass while pursuing connection. In this episode, we dive deep into: - The scripted confession that didn't go as planned - How crushing on someone makes us hide parts of ourselves - The unconscious ways we tame our authenticity for attraction - Why we start monitoring our body hair and dimming our sparkle - The wobbly self-worth that surfaces when we're vulnerable - Finding protection and redirection in rejection This episode is for you if: ✓ You've hidden parts of yourself while crushing on someone ✓ You know the sting of unrequited feelings and awkward confessions ✓ You've noticed your insecurities resurface when you're attracted to someone ✓ You're tired of compromising your authenticity for love ✓ You want to learn how to stay sassy while being vulnerable TRIGGER WARNING: This episode discusses rejection, body insecurities, self-worth struggles, and the emotional complexity of unrequited attraction. Please take care of yourself while listening. 📖 WANT THE FULL EXPERIENCE? This episode is based on my newsletter where I share the complete story with raw reflections on love, rejection, and staying authentic. The vulnerability goes even deeper than what you'll hear. 👉 Read the full piece: https://bxsassy.substack.com/p/rejection?r=6hy8w 👉 Subscribe for weekly raw truth: bxsassy.substack.com 🎧 LOVING SASSY CHATS? Subscribe for daily episodes Share with someone who needs to hear this Leave a comment - I read every single one Follow me on @bxsassy2 and @_thesassyshow 💬 REFLECTION QUESTIONS: How do you change yourself when you're attracted to someone? What parts of your authenticity do you hide when crushing? How can you protect your self-worth while being vulnerable? What would it look like to be even MORE sassy around your crushes? Drop your thoughts below - this community is built on honest conversation. 🔥 TOMORROW'S EPISODE: "MY SEX LIFE: PART 1" We're diving into the unfiltered truth about modern dating, desire, and everything in between. You definitely won't want to miss this one.

What happens when you're crushing hard on someone completely vanilla while living your best kinky life? This is the story of navigating attraction across sexual worlds, the art of "half truths" in storytelling, and the messy reality of dating when your desires don't align. It's about examining our own biases, facing uncomfortable truths about who we're attracted to, and learning to be patient with love. In this episode, we dive deep into: The excitement and anxiety of crushing on someone outside the kink world How we craft "artistic license" when sharing personal stories Trying to find the perfect gateway event to introduce vanilla crushes to BDSM The awkward dance of double rejections and anxious attachment Confronting our own patterns of fetishization and racial preferences Making radical decisions about one-night stands and meaningful connections This episode is for you if: ✓ You've struggled to bridge different sexual worlds in dating ✓ You've caught yourself in uncomfortable patterns of attraction ✓ You're tired of surface-level connections and want something deeper ✓ You've felt the sting of rejection while trying to share your authentic self ✓ You're ready to examine your own biases in dating and desire TRIGGER WARNING: This episode discusses BDSM, racial fetishization, rejection, and the emotional complexity of navigating different sexual communities. Please take care of yourself while listening. 📖 WANT THE FULL EXPERIENCE? This episode is based on my newsletter where I share the complete story with intimate reflections and the raw truth about modern dating. You'll get the unedited version that didn't make it to print. 👉 Read the full piece: https://bxsassy.substack.com/p/half-truths?r=6hy8w 👉 Subscribe for weekly raw truth: bxsassy.substack.com 🎧 LOVING SASSY CHATS? Subscribe for daily episodes Share with someone who needs to hear this Leave a comment - I read every single one Follow me on @bxsassy2 and @_thesassyshow 💬 REFLECTION QUESTIONS: What "half truths" do you tell when sharing your story? Have you noticed patterns in who you're attracted to that make you uncomfortable? How do you navigate dating across different sexual communities? What radical decision could you make about love in 2025? Drop your thoughts below - this community is built on honest conversation. 🔥 TOMORROW'S EPISODE: "RICH OR POOR?" We're diving into money, scarcity mindset, and the complex relationship between self-worth and wealth. You won't want to miss it.